Tuesday, August 12, 2008

the thrill of the chase

people say there's not much left from a relationship after the chase is gone. all you're left with is a whining woman who thinks he cares about her feelings and a bored man who thinks he can run away whenever he can. the truth is: he can run away whenever he wants to.
i personally believe that the thrill of the chase is valid as long as it's applied to life. we chase after the best grades, after the "best teen in our school"award, after the skills that make us the best at whatever we do...
you can't blame us for it...the thrill of the chace is what drives us, so...when you actually get what you think you've wanted all along, it turnes out there's always something more to chase for, there's always someone better than you.
so...basicly it all comes down to 2 choices: you either go along and invest yourself in new chases, or you settle down, take a moment and enjoy the success that you've had so far.
i think that can be applied to relationships as well: you either decide the victory is complete and you find yourself another one, or you settle down and enjoy whatever life and the other person throws at you. ...as long as it's not something sharp :)

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